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Here’s a question I get a lot. “Hey, I really want to do ( some cool project or life change ), and I have it all figured out, but there’s no way for me to ( overcome one single obstacle )”.

I like receiving questions and am usually happy to answer them, but this one drives me up the wall. There’s NO WAY? Really?

Notice that the question isn’t “Hey, I really want to do ( some cool project or life change ), and I have it all figured out, but I can’t figure out how to ( overcome one single obstacle ). So far I’ve tried ( one possible solution ) and ( another possible solution ) and ( a third possible solution )”.

I’ve never gotten that question.

Here’s how doing hard things actually works: You work on it until you hit a roadblock. Once you hit the roadblock, you try to figure out a solution. If that doesn’t work, you try something else, and keep trying new things until you finally solve the problem.

Thinking isn’t enough. If you think you can’t solve a problem, try anyway. It’s way too easy to think ourselves out of hard work. Decide that you can’t conquer something only once you’ve come at it from every possible angle.

Most people fail in their mind well before the action ever surfaces to real life.

A common manifestation of this question is people wanting to travel but not knowing how to make money on the road. Fair enough– making money on the internet is a bit tricky because if you know an easy way to do it you don’t tell anyone, and the hard ways take time and effort.

You wouldn’t believe the simple things that stop people, though. I remember one guy saying he couldn’t afford the web hosting and domain name. That’s about five dollars a month. You mean to tell me that you think you’re going to have a successful business, but you aren’t scrappy enough to find a way to come up with five bucks a month?

I find that a lot of my advice boils down to this: do something now. Just do something. Move in any direction that isn’t the polar opposite of your goal. Thinking isn’t a substitute for action, it’s leverage for your action. Without action, thinking won’t get you anywhere.

Do something now.


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There are 16 Comments.


Mark
Jan 18th, 2010 @ 7:37 am

Very true – thanks for another good post Tynan!

Jan 18th, 2010 @ 7:57 am

Thank you, Tynan, you explained the key in plain, simple language. Too many people are looking for the next great secret and there really isn’t any. If your goal is worthy of attaining, get out of your own way and start doing things to accomplish it.

- Charley

Jan 18th, 2010 @ 7:59 am

This post made me think of two ‘mantras’ I find myself repeating often:

1. Life isn’t about the point you’re at but the direction you’re going.

2. When I come upon a totally unexplainable bug in software I’m writing, my foolproof strategy is ‘Just change anything.”

It is so easy to get paralyzed by a seemingly insurmountable obstacle, like a nonsensicle bug. But being paralyzed is the surest way to never solve the problem.

If things aren’t working, just change anything.

-Nicky


Josh
Jan 18th, 2010 @ 9:47 am

I just started going to university after being out of school for quite a while, largely for this reason. It was a great decision. I love when your posts agree with my life, because I almost always agree with your posts.

Jan 18th, 2010 @ 11:42 am

Hi Tynan,
I just found your blog (while looking for others who live on the road) and am loving it! This post was perfect timing for me. Thanks!
~Stacy

Jan 18th, 2010 @ 1:10 pm

Totally agree that the “do something now” approach is really the only way to get things done. As soon as I commit myself to a project – with balls to the walls, 100% enthusiasm – I usually find I get it done quickly and successfully. Thinking definitely ISN’T enough!


TheReelDeal
Jan 18th, 2010 @ 6:33 pm

The best advice yet. Just do something. Let the chips fall where they may.

-Nathan


TJ Nelson
Jan 18th, 2010 @ 7:36 pm

I like it. I need to get that drilled into my head hardcore.

Have an alarm that says “GET UP NOW!”

Then when I need to start writing my paper “START WRITING.. NOW!”

Oh crap! I really do need to submit my paper.

See ya

Jan 18th, 2010 @ 11:37 pm

I wish there was a bootcamp that could just ingrain in people a bias for action. DOING is often overlooked.

Jan 18th, 2010 @ 11:48 pm

There are way too many day-dreamers that want life handed to them on a silver platter. Unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way. You have to fail before you can succeed

Jan 19th, 2010 @ 2:21 am

The most obvious advice is often the hardest for people to understand and it is always good to be reminded.

I want to disagree with the fellow above me though who said “you have to fail before you can succeed”. I think if you truly fail you can never succeed. However if you learn from what didn’t work then you are a step closer to success albeit on a different path than you intended.

Just my narrow world view though :)


Cody Ellis
Jan 19th, 2010 @ 7:10 am

Tynan, I’ve been reading since nearly the begining of your blog and I think this is the single best post on this topic you’ve written.

This will help many people.

Cheers, Cody

Jan 19th, 2010 @ 1:19 pm

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Jan 19th, 2010 @ 2:32 pm

You are very right! I love your posts and am trying to live the nomadic life. I really didn’t know how to start or where to begin. You and Tim Ferris kinda gave me the “holy crap, I can do this” that I needed. My current struggle is what I think has been called a high quality problem. How to get to work while sitting on a beach in Zihuatanejo and the glare on the computer screen is a bit too much…

Jan 19th, 2010 @ 7:06 pm

Agreed. Good stuff. Now can you get rid of the annoying ’sign up to get…’ off? I’m signed up. I read ‘em.
What would Seth Do?

Andrew


DonnaSummer
Jan 23rd, 2010 @ 5:50 am

Oh!!! I love your post. thank you. I can not sometimes force myself to get to work or start doing something. I hope you will write about it more

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