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Do you like racing big wheels down the hills in the rain? I do.

When I was in middle school, I was a picky eater. I didn’t eat meat and I didn’t eat any vegetables besides corn, potatoes, and artichokes. If it weren’t for my parents cleverly blending all sorts of vegetables into pasta sauce, I’d probably be about four feet tall and be even skinnier than I am now. I told people that I didn’t like meat or vegetables, but in reality I just didn’t know; I stubbornly refused to try them.

This sounds ridiculous, but we do it all the time. We write off certain activities that we’ve never experienced, usually because of a lack of information. Recently I’ve been challenging my prejudices by doing things that don’t particularly appeal to me. It comes back to the risk/reward idea: if I don’t like the activity I’ve wasted an hour of my time (because I’ll leave if it seems hopeless in the first hour), but if I do like it I might find an awesome new hobby or interest.

Take monster truck rallies, for example. I’ve never had any real interest in monster truck rallies before. None of my friends or family have ever recommended that I go see one. I could have easily died happy without ever going to a monster truck rally. They’re for white trash, right?

Enter Monster Jam 2010. A friend heard about the monster truck rally, thought it would be funny to dress up and go to Monster Jam, which was coming through the bay. I, in turn, tried to recruit other friends, including my friend Christophe. He declared that “zee French do not go to zees things”, but in the end was somehow dragged to the Coliseum in Oakland.

Assuming that the rest of the bay area was equally unexcited about such plebian entertainment, we headed to the event an hour late. To our surprise we were met by traffic and a long ticket line that ate up another hour. In the end we paid $30 each for the last seats available, standing room in the handicapped section, determined to see the final hour of truck-crushing goodness.

It was worth every penny. Even Christophe was standing up, pumping his fists, screaming for Monster Mutt (our favorite truck). I may not invest in a wardrobe of wife-beaters and follow Monster Mutt around the country, but I’d definitely go to another rally if it came through. Most importantly, having so much fun at Monster Jam made me wonder what else I might be missing out on. Since then I went to a ballet, have started learning to play go, visited a nudist resort, plan on going to a destruction derby, and hope to see an opera soon.

Next time you’re looking for something interesting to do, don’t just consider what you like doing, consider also what you know nothing about. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Here are some suggestions from me. I’d love to hear your suggestions as well:

  • Hiking
  • Going to a musical
  • Going to a ballet
  • Cooking
  • Sky diving
  • Photography
  • Programming (way easier to start than you think.)
  • Go Kart Racing

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There are 24 Comments.


TJ Nelson
Apr 19th, 2010 @ 2:55 pm

Haha could you expand on the (way easier to start than you think.) for programming? I’m interested.

I would add
-Learning a Language
-Meditation
-Running a marathon
-Kayaking
-Trying out a new haircut
-Eating a Pulparindo candy.

Also, how do I get rid of the image that posts up when I comment? I have no idea how that got there

Apr 19th, 2010 @ 2:57 pm

I have really wanted to try kite boarding.

I’m trying light packing around Europe for the next month thinks in large part to this blog. Keep up the good posts.

Apr 19th, 2010 @ 3:04 pm

Improv is the new Yoga.

Apr 19th, 2010 @ 3:20 pm

I agree with learn a new language. Add (for some people) read a book or read a non fiction book. Watch the Bucket List and you’ll get ideas. Live each day like you’re dieing and you’ll do a lot of things you’ve never done. Drive a fast car. Ride a motorcycle. Try racing.

Apr 19th, 2010 @ 3:27 pm

I think the answer is a little different for each person. The reason being that it involves exploring something outside your normal comfort zone. For example: If one grew up in a trailer park in rural Arkansas, I would suggest ballet, art museums, music lessons, etc. for that individual. Conversely, for someone that grew up in San Francisco, I would suggest learning how to shoot a gun, drive a 4WD, camping and other such activities which would undoubtedly be second nature for the individual from rural Arkansas.

The way that works for me is to figure out what makes me the most nervous or uncomfortable and doing exactly that – ballroom dancing lessons being the most recent example…

By the way, Tynan, you’ve got to do the destruction derby. By no means am I a redneck, but they’re a hell of a lot of fun.

Apr 19th, 2010 @ 5:19 pm

Rock-Climbing (at a gym or on real rocks!)


moose
Apr 19th, 2010 @ 7:45 pm

Definitely meditating. if you have bad concentration then guided meditation would be better. (search youtube.) erm rock climbing is fun. stretching everyday makes me feel good. a nice 10-15 minute whole body stretch every morning. and doing kind things for people, thats also good (wow my mind has gone blank.) thats it for now!

Apr 19th, 2010 @ 9:36 pm

Improv classes are very fun although they go completely against how my mind usually operates.

I’m doing a Trapeze class this week which is very cheap compared to skydiving.

I went to a ballet and an opera. It wasn’t very fun for me, I slept through the ballet.

I’m looking to take some dance classes too.

I used to be a very intellectual, bookish kind of guy though so more social and adrenline pumping activities are what push me outside my comfort zone.


Kyle
Apr 19th, 2010 @ 11:41 pm

The big wheel racing looks fantastic, but absolutely moronic to wear flip flops while doing it. Lucky you didn’t lose a toe.

For me, I’d like to start in your crazy stories archive. I’ve sworn to myself that before I graduate college and get into the real world I’ll climb a construction crane, jump a moving freight train, and dive off of a bridge


Ian
Apr 20th, 2010 @ 12:32 am

>>programming (way easier to start than you think)

Can you recommend a good resource or tutorial for me to start learning this?


Shelby
Apr 20th, 2010 @ 1:30 am

–> Try out for a Children’s Theater group (no matter how old you are); there are typically roles for adults & it’s a truly joyous & mind-opening experience to be on-stage with a gaggle of Little People

–> Rappelling b/c you can’t do it alone; you’ve got to be connected

–> Swimming with sea turtles: honestly, does this need any further explanation?


ThatDudeWithTheViolin
Apr 20th, 2010 @ 1:42 pm

If you go to see an opera, make sure to read a synopsis first; most of them are in german, french or italian, and not exactly the modern versions of those languages. Also, it’ll take your mind off of “wat da hell is dey’s sayin’?” so you can better enjoy the music. Have fun!


Dave H
Apr 20th, 2010 @ 2:46 pm

boxing class


Casey
Apr 21st, 2010 @ 12:48 am

This is very similar (and related) to the idea of breaking out of your comfort zone. I’m an adamant supporter of the fact that there are 3 zones for growth: A Comfort Zone, a Learning/Growth Zone, and a Failure Zone. Basically, your comfort zone is what you know, and you’re “safe” there. However, stepping out of it is the *only* way to learn. Depending on how far you step out of it, you may reach the Learning zone, or perhaps the failure zone, where the challenges are too great and you will surely fail.

It can be applied to pretty much anything and everything.

As for specific activities, I can recommend:

- Yoga! Took a class the other semester, and it was thoroughly enjoyable.
- Learning an instrument! Music soothes the soul, after all.
- (This one’s weird) Elderly Water Aerobics! I joined this class at my college, just for kicks. It was great. I got the benefit of hanging out with cool and wise old people, and got to get a decent work out every morning.

As for all the commenters asking about how to start programming: I highly recommend W3Schools.com. They’ve got (X)HTML, CSS, XML, Javascript, and more. It’s all free, and well written and laid out. I’ve seen Tynan recommend it before, so I’m sure he’d agree with me.

PS: Tynan, I noticed “Visiting a nudist colony” was mysteriously missing from your suggestions. Any particular reason why?


Jason
Apr 21st, 2010 @ 3:46 pm

Learn some wilderness survival skills such as learning wild edible plants, how to butcher an animal, or fire by friction. In the Bay Area check out TrackersBay.com and Paleotechnics.com. There are lots of others around the country (hollowtop.com has a nationwide list).


Tynan
Apr 22nd, 2010 @ 9:32 pm

@Jason Good one… I’m going to check out those bay area places. Thanks for the links.

Apr 23rd, 2010 @ 4:29 pm

Try Argentine Tango. It is very fun. Also it is a great way to meet locals while traveling; Usually major cities have at least one tango studio.

Apr 24th, 2010 @ 4:40 am

@Ian: for programming, it all depends on what you want to create. If you want to create a website, you could look into PHP and JavaScript. For a desktop application, you could look into C, C++, C# or Java. Python can also be a good choice for a first language. For all these languages, there are good resources available online (there are also books).

Apr 26th, 2010 @ 5:22 am

Great insight. I think a lot of the ‘not knowing’ dislike comes from that ever present fear of the unknown. The more you get out there and expand your comfort zone, the more opportunities you have to like cool stuff like on this list.


William
Apr 27th, 2010 @ 6:26 am

magic mushrooms for sure.

For me it was a crazy coincidence, but well worth.

Apr 27th, 2010 @ 2:03 pm

Great post Tynan! I’m currently trying to push myself to try new activities I know nothing about. I just had to change my mindset from “Why?” to “Why not?”. What do we have to loose?

Cheers from Mexico, I think I may head out to my first Lucha Libre tonight!

Apr 30th, 2010 @ 4:39 pm

I put my suggestions here:

http://crasch.livejournal.com/914175.html

May 4th, 2010 @ 10:11 pm

I add couple of my favorites:

- Salsa Dancing
- Sauna And Rolling In The Snow (a Finnish past time)
- Ballroom dance competition
- Street basketball
- Badminton

May 30th, 2010 @ 11:02 pm

Smart man u r so u like things outa da box do ya?
Well here is one I been thinkin about,a Rialta with stick shift clutch and all.
It can be done,just think of it ,u da only one with a stick shift Rialta.
Thats what I hope to do some day.
Almost bought a eurovan stick shift with the 5 cylinder audi engine $1400 would have got it,had all the parts needed to convert to a Rialta with the 5 cylinder.
I watch your rv tour everyday,I am jelous.Bill

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